I was listening to Dr Wayne Dyer on Hayhouse Radio talk about being at home wherever you are. It reminds me of the article I wrote for Global Connection on homesickness.
Moving is on my mind as in 3 months I will be back in the Netherlands, leaving London. I like to say that I am a child of the world, seeing that I have not been in South Africa (my home) for so many years. I have learned to settle in really well from day 1 in any new country. My stay in London feels so much like home that it is a challenge to accept the idea of moving. I will feel at home in London right until my last day here.
And the next day, I will already feel at home in the Netherlands.
Feeling at home somewhere is not only about being comfortable in a physical location or physical context. I have realised the need for me to redefine what it means to “be at home”. To be at home to me means to be “at one”. To be comfortable in my body that is home to my spirit and to be comfortable in “spirit”. When I am comfortable in my body that is my home and feel really at ease and able to replenish myself in my “spirit”, it doesn’t matter where I am physically or who I am with.
To me, home is a place where I can relax, I can feel safe, I can center my soul, I can replenish myself and so much more. “home” when defined in this way is so much more invigorating, satisfying and all-embracing.